Book Quotes: Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix
"How come she married him?" Harry asked miserably. "She hated him!" Nah, she didn’t," said Sirius. "She started going out with him in seventh year," said Lupin. "Once James deflated his head a bit," said Sirius. "And stopped hexing people just for the fun of it," said Lupin. "Even Snape?" said Harry. "Well," said Lupin slowly, "Snape was a special case. I mean, he never lost an opportunity to curse James, so you couldn’t really expect James to take that lying down, could you?" "And my mum was okay with that?" "She didn’t know too much about it to tell you the truth," said Sirius. "I mean, James didn’t take Snape on dates with her and jinx him in front of her, did he?"
“Differences of habit and language are nothing at all if our aims are identical and our hearts are open.”